It sounds like there are some frustrating circumstances that you have to deal with, people not "getting it". It's a challenge when you communicate, but the message isn't received the way you intended. Also, I totally understand that whole "it takes two" to make good communication, but it sounds to me like your friend was also having a hard time. That can be unsettling to hear when you just want to move on and get back to a good routine with them.

Venting is HIGHLY encourage. Feels better, eh?