I'm 49 and my children are grown and gone. I keep having dreams that I have a child or, like last night, someone else's children, and I forget that I have them and end up feeling awful that I have neglected them.

I don't have the dream frequently, but I am curious that I have had this same type of dream a number of times.

I feel reasonably good about my mothering. Of course you always feel you should have done some things differently, but my kids are good people.

I feel the dream might be trying to tell me something. Any ideas?