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Old Jun 20, 2013, 05:33 PM
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Originally Posted by hope2013 View Post
Hi! It's me again. I told him, but he has done it again. I'm now trying to distance myself from him.

He made similar comments in the past, but it didn't trigger me back then, it all began after the rape. When I told him about the rape, I explained to him that I was triggered by anything related to sex, so yes, he's being extremely insensitive.

I've been so lonely lately, I'm isolating myself from my family and friends, but somehow loneliness gives me a huge sense of security.

I'm sorry for what you had to endure. No one had the right to put this kind of burden on you, expecialy for thier own pleasure. I hope in time you can heal from these wounds and develop some trusting relationship and have a sense of personal security. I can imagine the heartache you must feel by not feel safe. I can offer no words to take back what happened, but I can say you never deserved something so cruel and I hope it doesnt haunt you forever. Take care of yourself.
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