Hey you..

Am concerned about this. You're spending way too much thinking about this fella, and watching his every move on the internet. I fear that you are obsessing.

I do understand that him not liking you hurt, and it's really disappointing. But chick, this is life. People let us down, they play games with us too sometimes. They also have every right to not want to date you, despite what they said before - people are allowed to change their minds for whatever reason. Sure, it hurts but seriously, that IS life - we go through some ducks before we meet a gem - you, me, nearly everyone goes through this bar a few lucky ones.

Now, the way you're behaving with this chap and the stuff you've talked about on here will and has most probably already raised some alarm bells in this fella. He may just want to steer clear from you - and perhaps that even friendship isn't what he wants anymore and you know I do not blame him - I'd be the same. No matter how hard you try with him, and in fact, the harder you try it can make it worse. Really, for your own good, you've got to start getting on with your life. I'll write it again - but you can NOT make anyone like you, no matter how much you want it. It's a tough lesson to learn, and am afraid you've no other option but to learn it. I think too it would be beneficial go back to the therapist and try to understand why you react so badly to rejection because this isn't healthy.

I guess you'll ignore this, as well as all the other good advice given tho because it's not what you want to hear. I guess you'll have to put yourself through much more pain before you get to move on - and this is what it is - you're putting yourself through all of this pain, not this man.

Good luck...