Can him and get a new one. I've seen at least a dozen therapists and some of them were awful. But some were amazing. Don't judge the whole thing on this one guy. And, I agree with others, females work better for females. It's the one gal to gal relationship where the other girl isn't judging you
I don't know what I'd do without my therapist, but I don't have the support it sounds like you do.