I'm just going to skip all the details as simply say that I do not want my marriage to come to an end. I never did really. I know he loves me. And I recognize he is hurting just like me. He says has no interest in making an effort to make it work but I do and I think its just his hurt talking. It's just.. certain little things.. So I did a little googling and realized there might be a way I could possibly fix our relationship myself.. I am a survivor of so many things. Horrible unspeakable things.. and its only because I refused to give up that I am still alive. This should not be any different, ya know? I just.. this.. I really dont want to lose it. As difficult as things have been, he is still the best thing that has ever happened in my life.

So.. my question is.. has anyone ever tried to save their relationship solo using the methods like those listed in "Stop Your Breakup"? or are you currently trying to? (Btw I recommend downloading kindle for pc -its free- and reading the free sample of this book to better understand what I am asking.)

I just want to give it a shot and I was wondering if anyone else had tried it or something similar.. or if anyone would be interested in possibly forming a support group and doing this together?