Does the pdoc serve as your therapist as well? Also, is he in his own private practice? I'm curious because he makes his own phone calls and appointments. Where I live, I have never heard of a pdoc who takes on all of these roles-scheduler, therapist, and doctor. This is more common for t's.

All that you have shared sounds very odd to me. Since you are feeling so uncomfortable, it might be a good idea to seek out another pdoc. The one you are dealing with now sounds very intimidating and manipulative.

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