I have done the same thing.. put down the book and the workbook for long periods of time and then went back to it when I felt ready....but I too had to admit that the pain wasn't going to stop....

I have heard that if you tell the little one it is safe.. be her mommy... hold her and be gentle with her so she feels safe. then it is easier fo rher to be open about the abuse....

I am holding you in my thoughts... Faith