I hope things work out well for you this time. Divorce is never easy. I know. I've been through one as well, and am married now to my 2nd wife. I don't really have a good answer for you. My first marrigae ended, partly, because of the meddling of my own family. I just wanted to let you know that I sorta understand what you're going through, and care. I really hope that this works out well for you.