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Originally Posted by quiznot
Yes I am seeking counseling for it. I know that it's my problem and I know that she has not given me a direct reason to distrust her. You mention dancing, I just find something inherently wrong with dancing with the opposite sex if you are in a relationship. A man is not going to walk up to you and ask you to dance because you have nice shoes on. It's because he wants you, so knowing that why would you want to dance with him? That is the question I always find myself asking.
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I wouldn't say it's inherently wrong, but I can see why, given her history, it upsets you. And yes, to ask someone to dance does normally mean that they find the person attractive, but it doesn't have to lead to someone being unfaithful does it? That's up to the individuals, not the dancing. I'd go dancing with other men because my partner will not dance, ever, but I'd never be unfaithful to him because I love him and don't ever want to hurt him. It's about respect for my partner.
So if she didn't dance with other men, would that sort your issues do you think?