Do you think it is really love?

I know that I have been very suceptible to getting crushes. Things are not going well for me and then I think if just this person was more responsive to my advances everything will be right with the world. Well I had someone respond once and that really satisfied my crushes for quite awhile and gave me more perspective on what I was expecting. Still suceptible to crushes but with more information.

What I try do is an inventory of what is important to me and see how the other person matches. It is possible that she has already seen a large mismatch that you missing and some inventory might allow you to see it too. An inventory may also help you find someone. I started with the deal breakers and worked down from there.

What I really want you to do because I am way to chicken to do it myself is to get really vunderable and lay the whole thing out the next time you see her and just take whatever the response is. Then let me know about it. Because I would like to know once and for all if what happens in these romantic comedies is always just a script or if it happens in real life.