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Originally Posted by Mapleton
Ding ding ding! We have a winner!
Therapy won't work if you lie to your therapist. The trick to understand is... if you don't want to answer something, instead of lying, say you don't want to answer that.. and the feeling that it brought up-- the why.
That will clue the therapist in that she needs to use a different approach.
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I would add Lycanthrope's idea into the mix: just as OP lied to his therapist, so do other Asian people lie (no, not lie, but refrain from disclosing) when asked about their masturbation habits, and that network of lies creates an impression of Asian people being different from the rest of us.
But then again, this is all logic and logic won't work.