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Old Jun 22, 2013, 05:51 AM
StarTrek14 StarTrek14 is offline
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My girlfriend and I have been together two years and have had a really good relationship. Everything was going great. Her dad died unexpectedly about 3 months ago and it has been up and down as expected considering she is grieving. She has always been a quiet person and not one to talk about things. She hasn't really talked about anything in detail but I didn't want to force her to. She says she needs me more than ever and days later will say she doesn't know if she can deal with the emotions that come from being in a relationship. We currently live with room mates and recently an incident happened while I was not home in which the roommates were being loud when she was sleeping and got upset and started cussing in the other room about having to be quiet which she heard. She is extremely upset with them, wants nothing to do with them and is getting angry at me that I am allowing that even though I confronted them and told them it was disrespectful. My gf got even more upset with me when I told her we couldn't move out because we can not afford it together right now and we need to have room mates in order to make rent. She got so upset she packed all her stuff and moved out and broke up with me. The next day she came by to get the rest of her stuff and we talked and decided we will stay together and save for our own place. Now two days later she has brought it back up that she's still not happy with having to move out and feels like it is unfair that she is treated unfairly and she is the one that has to leave. I'm not sure what to do. I'm confused if this is being blown out of proportion and I wonder if she could be bipolar since her dad that just passed was diagnosed as bipolar or is it part of grieving process?. I love her so much and want to be with her..I am just not sure what to do to help right now.
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