My roomate was graduating a rehab program with a year sober that same weekend. His parents drove 800mi to be here. He planned that following week to go on vacation (already took the time off work to go). How exactly could it have been okay for me to expose him and his parents to a virus and potentially ruin all of these plans? I apologized that she felt hurt by my actions but I am NOT sorry for standing up for myself. And I did give you the facts. That's why I was so upset, she was incredibly irrational. I have three children of my own plus a husband and roomate to think about, it wasn't just exposing me. And for what it's worth my kids get sick maybe 3x a year each. Maybe. The difference is I've never nor would I ever ask her to keep my vomiting child. Whether she left her sick child or not isn't the issue here, it's that when I said no she told me to eff off. Totally uncalled for.