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Originally Posted by doggiedo
Yea that's a good point. I know a good friend won't judge. I have been trying to break it down even more- I think I'm not wanting her to come bc she's a reminder of what I failed at. She has a house, husband, and a family on the way. I get to show her that still living like I'm just out of college, but 10 years later, broke, renting, and single. It sucks.
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If she is a good friend, you will connect.
I just came back from visiting my old old old gf in Chicago. We have known each other since we were both six.
She has a palatial house, a hard working CPA husband with his own accounting firm, three lovely children, etc. etc.
And I have nothing.
But it is OK - we connected very well. I am glad I went. I used to think that this kind of difference in social status would be a divide, but - it was not.
And I just recently did hang up after talking with her for two hours.
BUT I understand how your position is different from mine because she will visit YOU. I would not want my friend to visit me in my apartment. So sure, get that part.