what actions have i not spoken of? didn't i tell you the time i saw my therapist? well i guess there's no use in talking to you about this anymore. I feel like you don't want to change your porn habits and you're telling me to do the same, am i correct? I mean, I want to change and as much as I disagree with you, I mean, wouldn't you at least recommend that i do something else instead of just telling me that I'm doing okay?