I have the feeling I had been diagnosed with BPD a long time ago, all because of my fault, somehow, for not being clear, but I think also many times, nowadays, people receive the BPD label too quick and not for too strong reasons. Having a bad year is not BPD. A psychologist years ago told me I had BPD and I don't buy her diagnose, because I know how BPD feels like, I get a feeling when I read you guys, and although I usually got reached by your feelings, and I could understand them, I could not help but feeling I was not BPD. I never did none of the things BPD people do. I might have a few crazy years, I mean, difficult, wrong years for me, but that's doens't make me BPD. I think BPD needs a further explanation and explication tan simply put it when you don't know. I read about this in the Internet and I get that feeling too. It's like there was many faces of BPD out there. I think I have a dissociative disorder. And the worst was that I had a relationship with a man I adviced before everything I had BPD and it was like a kind of excuse for me to ruin it all all the way. Like, "I'm gonna hurt you, but I want to tell this as a disclaimer so my conscious won't treason me".