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Going on medications is not admitting you have a character flaw but is admitting that you need help and will be a much happier person because of it, and your husband once stable will no longer be verbally abusive towards you.
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eh. Meds do not cure abuse. Unmedicated abuser once he gets on meds becomes... a medicated abuser.
and please do not excuse abusers as "cannot help it". Yes, they can. It's not a "disease" that makes one abusive... being abuser IS a character flaw, plain and simple.
Many bipolars are pretty damn nice people, even if our meds don't work (or if we aren't medicated). Snapping once in a while is human characteristic. If it's constant thing, it's a different matter.
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