Alright, I added the trigger button for those who need to look away.
First, I handcuff him around the post of my deck and then blindfold him before I leave to get my toys ready. When I come back, I lift up his shirt and massage and tug on his nipple with one hand, massage his other nipple with my tongue, and then jerk him off with my free hand until he comes. Removing the handcuffs and keeping the blindfold on, I lead him into the living room and have him bend over my lap. I rub the paddle over him while giving him instructions, then spank him and order him to jerk off while saying, "Thank you, Miss Emma" (my German name). When he comes a second time, I lead him to my bedroom and give him a blowjob until he comes a third time.
That would be my one of more "tame" fantasies.