Good for you, Sundance. I know it can be hard to tell the people we love about our pasts. The thing about him grabbing your arm and asking if he was triggering you bothers me a little. It just seems kind of strange. I'm glad you had the courage to talk to him and your therapist. I'm also glad you're feeling good. I love when people share about their triumphs on here. It always lifts my spirits to think of you happy. Take care! Annie