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Originally Posted by Asiablue
I think this is a time where you need to practice mindfulness, don't worry about the if's and but's of 6 months away, concentrate on today or this following week. It will all be ok.
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I know mindfulness can help, but if I do that, then the 6 months will be over and I'll have to say good-bye to my T. I need to do more than practice mindfulness. Radical acceptance is helping me right now.
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Originally Posted by nicoleflynn
A client is the one who decides when to leave. No one should give you a time frame, etc...that just causes anxiety. You should feel safe to stay as long as you need to.
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I would stay in T forever if I could afford it.
That a client decides when to leave is true for most clients, but not for me, especially when the transference and attachment is interfering with my RL, instead of helping it. Also, I have to quit next year for financial reasons anyway. I thought maybe she'd give me a cheap rate, but she doesn't think she can.