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Originally Posted by just_some_girl
Wow. I think I'd find the photos to be going too far, personally, but sometimes I wish my T would bring these things up and make it seem more comfortable and 'okay' to talk about.. because I sure as heck am not able to start such a conversation. On the occasions I've tried to venture into that territory, T hasn't seemed to take the hint - or maybe hasn't wanted to - and I've just been left assuming that it's NOT okay and that I need to shut up!  |
Maybe you need to spell it out to her JSG. I mean sometimes we do not pick up other peoples hints. I think you should just say T we need to talk about sex. From my experience most ts love talking about sex and they are even a little obsessed by it.
I dont think your t doesn't want to talk about it, I think you need to be crystal clear with some ts on how you would like to use your time. I have learned that ts do not go there unless you specifically ask them to