I don't understand your story? I'm confused as to why your son was calling them, what was the purpose? Was he trying to find out the time and location of the get-together? If so, why hadn't your husband already known about it's upcoming occurance?

I understand that you didn't want to go without talking to your husband about it, but at the same time, was it something huge? Or could a note have sufficed for when he woke up? It seems like the plan would have been done and over with before he was awake? Was your sister wanting you to go that instant or was there time to get ready and stuff?

And why didn't you talk to your other two sisters when they came over to visit? That sounds like they wanted to spend time with you even though you didn't go on the family outing... and that they were putting in the effort to try and make it up to you a little bit. I'm not sure why you wouldn't have spoken to them?

Maybe they weren't very organized in the planning of the first outing, but it seems like you knew the date of it and I don't get why you hadn't already talked to your husband about going that day, even if you hadn't known the specific times? And then you refused to visit with your sisters, or to go to the dinner.... I can understand being hurt, but your family wasn't leaving you out either and I can understand why they are feeling hurt - you refused to have anything to do with them!

But yeah... I don't fully understand what went on, but if you want to give more details then I'm sure I'll understand it better!

Either way... I'm sorry that you aren't feeling happy about the situation, families sure are stressful.