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Originally Posted by Antimatter
I have been with him since September. I am okay if he was angry/irritated, or if he wasn't, I know Ts are human and so that doesn't bother me, it is over.
But, what does bother me is that I don't know when I can or can't trust my perceptions. I was just wondering if anyone else had this issue? Thanks for your reply! 
Also, the day this happened, I was in a not so great ego state, and when I went in the next day, the whole room looked completely different (bigger, lighter), I was in a different ego state (mood/feeling state or whatever it is).
If my perceptions about the room were different, it would follow that all of my perceptions were skewed, but I usually can depend on my nonverbal perceptions, but I don't know. Sorry if this makes no sense. |
I had this problem last session, too, actually. I thought for sure that T was frustrated with me, but I know that my initial reactions can be off. When I looked back on the fundamentals of the session, I don't think he was frustrated.....rather I was projecting my frustration onto him.