((((anti))) I find a lot of the time my perceptions are that my T is angry; and therefore I read that into things even though he says he isn't. I'm learning (very slowly) that often it's because I expect him to be angry because within me is the sense that he should be; and so because I've made that determination and am expecting it I'm hypersensitive and even if he says something as innocent as Hi, I'd be convinced he was angry One thing I notice is that with my T this is a lot more sensitive than with any other person