Your are right Hamster, I was just thinking if I got pulled over for speeding and an officer found the pot and asked "What is that for", I do not see the correct answer being oh it is for my sex drive.

If it were legal I might actually give it a try.

Psycho there is a long standing history of abuse(verbal and emotional) from my H, Things have gotten better w/ marriage T. There has also been rape in my past. I am having a difficult time with sex. And my H has told me he cannot stay in a sexless marriage forever. Well it is not sexless, just lacking in wanting and enjoying of sex. The T told him she understood and that that was a valid reason to want out. I really hope that was just confirmation of his frustration, not a true agreement that lack of good sex is a reason to divorce. I have come to far to let lack of great sex be the straw that breaks the camels back.