Hi, well I talked about some off the stuff that I talked about here...I feel very uncomfortable knowing that I have to go back friday after having opened the gates to talking about closer to heart stuff...does anyone understand transferance completely? I mean when I got home I had to ask myself why would I want to be with my T more than my family (hubby and 3 kids) then it got me thinking that these transferrence feelings have got to be old earliest memorys surely?....is this what "working through" them means? that as we explore the feelings I will come to see that they belong in a time long gone? they are feelings a young baby has for their caregiver??...and does having this knowledge take the power away??