SideCrow,

I can understand why it's confusing for you to consider that this man is a danger to you. But, let me ask you this....if you felt that nothing was wrong, you would not have posted about this correct? Evidently, there is something within you screaming at you that this situation was wrong and that you needed some support to give you the strength to make the best decision possible and that would be to stay very very far away from this guy.

He is a well versed manipulator and abuser. He KNOWS exactly what he is doing as compared to you having very little knowledge about what he's doing or at the very least, refusing to let yourself believe the worst about him, and I will bet dollars to donuts, you refuse to listen to your own gut feelings about him as well.

He has done this many times to other women. I guarantee this as he has perfected his manipulation and it worked on you. Please do not kick yourself for this, he knows how to pick the women who will question themselves instead of questioning him.

I am not saying all this to hurt you or your feelings. I am really concerned for YOU and don't want to see you become another statistic. If this was a match made in heaven, there would be no question and no confusion about what happened. This is anything but a match made in heaven hon.

Please do what is best for yourself and keep yourself safe and abuse free from this guy. Think calmly and listen to your inner self/your gut and take measures to insure that this won't happen again. You owe it to yourself and those who love you to take care of yourself. Anyone worth having is worth waiting for! He's just not it hon.