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Originally Posted by Antimatter
I have been with him since September. I am okay if he was angry/irritated, or if he wasn't, I know Ts are human and so that doesn't bother me, it is over.
But, what does bother me is that I don't know when I can or can't trust my perceptions. I was just wondering if anyone else had this issue? Thanks for your reply! 
Also, the day this happened, I was in a not so great ego state, and when I went in the next day, the whole room looked completely different (bigger, lighter), I was in a different ego state (mood/feeling state or whatever it is).
If my perceptions about the room were different, it would follow that all of my perceptions were skewed, but I usually can depend on my nonverbal perceptions, but I don't know. Sorry if this makes no sense. |
I think
this is key. I do think it would be a great thing to bring up next session to see if you can figure out where those feelings came from. But for now, it seems a perfectly understandable thing, and actually, kind of good to me: maybe instead of your non-verbal perception "failing" you, maybe it's more in tune with your ego state at the time? I'd try to observe it as curious for now, and take it up in session.
