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Originally Posted by Syra
It's hard to know because there is so much information that is difficult to convey in a post, but the thing that comes to my mind is grooming behavior. Not necessarily for sex, maybe just for dependency, or control or something. I'm not saying that's what it is. I'm just saying that's what I think of and would want to consider.
I think the fact that your T is your ex-T's supervisor, who undoubtedly said lots of stuff about you from HER perspective would make me very nervous. I don't think I would like that, but I don't think it's fatal. Some people could work it out. But I wouldn't trust what ex-T had said.
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That's what it feels like to me too grooming and I feel awful, sick about it.
I don't trust what they both said about me and why t has taken a special interest in me based on something ex t said that I don't know about