the girl that I was currently dating and I have gone our separate ways, the problem with this situation is that It was very much a polyamorus relationship so I broke up with her as well as her husband and his partners as well as hers.

but she apparently is still talking to my friends and people I am interested in dating and saying things about me.

I try to be truthful when people ask me what is going on, the problem is that I can be a compulsive lair about things at times. I am trying very, very hard to stop my bad habits and my addictions and I am making progress.

But because I have made mistakes with these things, its hard for me to get away from my past.

and for people to forget about what I have done to them before.