My T doesn't print out emails, but will pull them up on her laptop to discuss. I'm good with that. It's never confrontational feeling. My T allows me to email her because she knows those are things I want to discuss in session but struggle to bring up. So, her having the email up and ready to talk about is helpful for me in getting the conversation started.

My T does seem to remember everything and it can be annoying when there are things I don't wish to discuss and she remembers and brings them up. If I'm not in a place where I can talk about those things, I just ask T if we can table that for a later session.