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I totally understand the people who are encouraging you to talk to her about it. I'm not sure I agree in this situation. IF it is grooming behavior, talking with her about it just puts her on alert, and either she will pass you over and groom someone else, or turn up the manipulative grooming behaviors. IF I wondered about grooming, and you said it felt that way to you, I think I might consult with someone else for that specific purpose. Not for therapy. Just for a reality check on what's happening with your T. I know it's not easy to find someone to consult with like that. I think I would be thiking about how to get a second opinion. But that's my first reaction, and it's something I would think more about.
Hmmm.
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