I think we need to be careful of the words we are using here. To me "grooming" is a very loaded word which suggests criminal activity, deliberately abusive behaviour and of a power differential which is similar to that of a defenseless child against an adult.

This is not the case here. MLS is not a defenseless child and her therapist is not grooming her. Her therapist is not knowingly hurting her. She may have questionable methods or boundaries which are not clear to MLS or us from the info we have and i agree this is something MLS needs to sort out with her but i think we need to keep it in perspective.