I find it annoying when my T compares her kids to my inner kids (have DID). She will say something like "Even Sally (her child, not real name) has had to learn/do x, y, z." Yeah? Was Sally sexually abused, left by her father, told she was rotten and so on? Oh, Sally has 2 PhD parents, is in every sport imaginable, and your crown and glory. Tell me how that resembles my childhood again??! Yeah it irks me.