Every cat I ever had found me, turned up. I have been blessed to have them. I never went to a rescue, I dont know how I would tbh. I guess Id just phone and send me the one no one wants! I love em and they feel it and I take them as they are. They are exceptional little beings..but yeah if one grabs out at you, take that one coz they were so needing for you to give them a home they plucked up the courage to reach out, then again there may be a shy broken one too withdrawn to ask for help. GAWWDDD it shouldnt be like this, poor souls!... Go by your inner voice?