I reread the OP and have come up with what seems to be a breakthrough for your situation.
So in the OP you presented the following:
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Originally Posted by Elektra_
so in December i decided to join a friendship chat (most sex than friendship) caz is the only way i have to "socialize". its rare to find a guy that doesnt want sex but once in a while they appear..
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And then you went on to complain that
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Originally Posted by Elektra_
thing is i actually met another guy... but guess what? all he wanted was sex
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So if you yourself estimated that the chat site was mostly for sex and not so much for friendship without sex, why do you keep getting astonished and even feel victimized when the guys you meet on the chat want sex? And what else should they want? The chat is, per you, primarily for sex. It is not for exchanging crochet patterns. If you sign up for a chat on which people exchange crochet patterns, and, on that chat, keep bumping into guys who want sex, then you would be justified complaining about your bad luck. But you signed up for a chat that focuses on sex. That on that chat site you run into guys who want sex is to be expected. So what are you complaining about?
If you really want what you claim you want, you need to find other venues for socialization.
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Originally Posted by Elektra_
my last msg: u did great job with ur bulshit convo and getting advantage that i was in bad shape caz of other guy. ur a bastard. dont contact me ever again. i wonder to how many u said those things. have a great life.
his reply: u know, i cant find an answer for such thing... if thats what u think, dont worry i wont bother u anymore. kiss and have a great life  |
I think you might want to apologize for being SO rude to him since he seems like a nice guy - he did not get the rudeness to color his good impression of you and still wished you a great life with a kiss, and promised not to bother you anymore. He really was on his best behavior with you, so it might make sense to apologize and see where it takes you. Maybe he will be interested in talking more with you.