Subs are very fragile. They need constant attention, but doms need to be taken care of too. These relationships can become very intense very quickly, so that's why they are so hard to maintain. Boundaries can be pushed without realizing it and can easily ruin a scene.

Personally, I cannot take pain at all. Even as a joke my best friend started whacking me with my riding crop and it freaked me out seeing her raise my own tool against me, this was over a year ago and it still makes me nervous.

Maybe when I am more confident I will share about my fantasies again, I've been dying for an excuse to take photos again.