I thought you still hadn't received an official diagnosis and were still waiting on the neuropsych eval?
You've vacillated a lot here on whether you experience mania at all or if some form of it, to what extent, if your moods are reactive, etc. I know it can be very confusing! I would keep a mood chart, try to be as accurate as possible, in preparation for the evaluation which will probably give you some answers. Have any meds or therapy helped you thus far?