Elektra,

Why did you post this original post? I am left asking because you're twisting what people have to say or not listening to advice and reason.

For example, Hamster wrote above that if it's friendship you're looking for then why are you looking for it on a sex dating site? It seems strange that you ignore her valid point and just insult her. And not for the first time, I saw the post yesterday that got deleted. To complain about sex chat on a sex site is like banging your head against a wall non-stop and then complaining that you have a headache. Until you change your pattern then you will not get different results.

If you want sympathy, and no advice then please make it clear from your posts. Sure, we can offer sympathy, not a problem there. But if you want your behaviour and the way you think validated, then no, no can do. You're not thinking straight on this situation, and totally ignoring advice to help yourself heal, or to see that this way of behaving with this fella (and insults to us on here) are socially unacceptable.

I just wonder what it is you want.