No, you've not been rude to me. But although Hamster is sometimes succinct with her posts, she's not been rude to you - it's her way to be straight to the point. Not everyone's cup of tea, fair enough, but there are ways to talk to people and tell them they are wrong, or you did not like the post without being insulting or call names.

I think I'll bow out of this now as it's starting to get to me. I wish you well in your future, and please, take a deep breath and take some of the stuff on board. People had been trying to help, including myself, but for me now that's it. I can see some of Albert Einstein's famous quote apply to me too.