I had an idea of what my diagnosis would be before seeing my first pdoc, based off google and taking a couple of online test.

Should I just start naming symptoms and acting dumb this time or just straight out tell the doctor "I have formally been diagnosed with this and that but I also think I may have this"

Can I just go to the office telling the pdoc I'm pretty confident I have this and that?

Can I ask on the first visit to try a certain medication?

Can I refuse to take or be prescribe lithium? I don't want it in my body.

My anxiety is bad and I'm freaking out.

I have a bipolar and depressive disorder diagnosis and "anxiety state".

I think I may also have ADHD...