I think your SO deserves a big party in celebration for being the type of partner everyone should try to be with theirs. Whether the other person is bpd or otherwise, that level of commitment and devotion is a rare find in today's day and age of fast food and quick fixes in every way. People don't stick with their partners anymore and that's even with people without PDs!

I'm happy for you and glad you found a good one to be with

You better keep this one. They don't come around everyday. Trust me, I'm still looking

*hugs*

Congrats for coming to terms with your disorder and getting help...