I did go to bed with a headache. And I posted earlier, like a few days ago about a weird experience with a recent break up...we are still friends but he came over last week and kissed me, and I resisted a few times and he put his hand around my throat and squeezed, in a serious way - as in I was not able to breathe - but he let go. It was just an odd thing and I was not hurt at all, but it surprised me enough that I needed to get feedback about it.