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Old Jun 25, 2013, 11:34 PM
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My Ex Husbands girlfriend has displayed some behavior towards my 9 yr old son that has me very concerned. I'll give you some of the examples:
1) she joined my son's school PTA (she's neither a parent or a teacher)
2) she tried to be the classroom mom for his 3rd grade class
3) she sat in my parking lot waiting for my son to come out of our apartment and she was there for around 10 min. (I happend to be in my new car trying to figure out how to set the radio stations when I saw her pull in).
4) she has started arguments up at my sos's baseball games when she (thought) it was "their" weekend to have our son.
5) she has been spotted by several close friends driving by our apartment (thy live nearly 8 miles south of us).
6) she has now aquired an attorney to try an get custody of our son (remember this is my ex husbands girlfriend) my ex husband is not and has not tried to push for custody until she came along ( we have beed divorced for a few years).
7) she shows up to our son's school to eat lunch all the time with him
8) she buys his teached gifts, and brings cupcakes to his class usually abut once a week.

I would not mind having a person in my son's life when he is with his dad, at least I would know he was being watched, and taken care of. But at this point I am VERY concerned because she has crossed so many boundries. I am not sure what she is thinking and how this may affect my son? Can anyone please help?? Advice, professional or other is appreciated.

thank You
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