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Originally Posted by leaJ
I am wondering what your relationship is like with your father. The reason I ask is because I saw alot of the same qualities in my ex husband, who is 18 years older than me, and I had pretty much no relationship with my own father my whole life. I think this might have something to do with the attraction???
BTW...he's probably going to live much longer than another 10 years...lol
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im not close to my father or anyone in my family really. he was very aloof,
he provided for my family by working a lot but he was never there for me emotionally.
but i dont think this has to do with my father. when i met this guy i didnt even know his age and i thought maybe he was 40. i dont really find older men to be attractive in general. just him and i wish that this guy weren't so old. i mean i wish there was an available, younger version of him.
i understated his age i think that hes actually closer to 60
but i didnt want the responses to all be like hes too old for you or something because i am fine with the age
and im not looking to spend the rest of my life with him or anything
maybe hell live more than 10 years (i hope) lol
but i wish i can ask him if he can do some things with me before he dies, lol