I guess that is up to the person...

I don't give out my IRL identity...

But I'd still be upset if someone used my posts for malevolent intent, however.

If someone tape-recorded me IRL without my permission then I'd be fairly upset about that too.

If I disclosed something personal that I was sensitive about and someone laughed or poked fun or was hostile in response then I'd probably feel upset too...

There are risks involved in interacting with people.
But nothing risked nothing gained.
That being said I think it is wise to be a bit cautious...

Some people here have already disclosed their real names / their real identities. I wouldn't want them to panic or feel bad...

But if you are going to be posting something you wouldn't want your neighbours and your workmates and your family etc to read... Then it is probably wise to stay anomymous methinks...