Aren't you kind of objectifying this person? Putting the cart before the horse? I mean, you do things together with a person to get to know them, or to share the experience with them, but do you even know this person? If I were you, I would look to make friends closer to home. Maybe try to fix my relationship with my father. Im 61 and not planning to die soon, and really not planning to entertain some 20 year old and their fantasy - I dont get it. We're real people ya know.