So you love her... She doesn't want a relationship right now yet, she gets upset if you are out doing anything? There are many red flags popping up.

How long out of this 2 months has been a healthy relationship?

You can not fix her. She has to work on her self and want to feel better. Maybe she is depressed , maybe there is more going on or maybe shes playing games? Who really knows for sure.

Don't you think you deserve more respect? Why would you just sit around and wait for her? Maybe just take a big step back and think about this relationship.

Good luck