I have called my counselor once and I email him at times with questions, and he has told me that's fine. I sometimes feel too dependant but I'm working on trying to come up with my own solutions too so I don't feel I rely on him too much. But, we've only been meeting for about 2 months. I'm worried what may happen because of finances though and I may not be able to afford 100 a week much longer so I'm trying to get everything out of it I can now while I can.